Thank you for your response. It seems like you willfully misconstrued and misunderstood this essay.

This essay does not contain the words 'sexual assault,' 'rape,' 'forgiveness,' or 'excuse.'

The sentence you highlighted conveys that women who abuse boys & men often lack power/control in their own lives, so they try to overcompensate by exerting power/control over the boys & men they victimize––that research-based perspective is not framed as a definitive directive or piece of advice.

Contextualizing a woman’s abusive behavior is worlds apart from excusing her abusive behavior. The former (contextualizing) can empower some victims to realize their perpetrator was never more powerful to begin with.

The point of this essay is that boys & men can heal from abuse by women without hating all other women––that is all. Anything more is your projection.

From this point onward, cease and desist.